<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[BigIdeas: Life, Tech and Culture #Audiobooks: BigIdeas: Edutaining Audiobooks ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Conversational Audiobooks that bring summaries from world's best non-fiction books across a wild range of topics.]]></description><link>https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/s/big-ideas-audiobooks</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!ZJso!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fd060d9a9-1b00-4864-a2b2-794db730592d_1280x1280.png</url><title>BigIdeas: Life, Tech and Culture #Audiobooks: BigIdeas: Edutaining Audiobooks </title><link>https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/s/big-ideas-audiobooks</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:06:56 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Zakti Inc]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[team@nextbigwhat.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[team@nextbigwhat.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Ashish Sinha]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Ashish Sinha]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[team@nextbigwhat.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[team@nextbigwhat.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Ashish Sinha]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[If your best friend becomes obese, your own risk increases by 171 %]]></title><description><![CDATA[How to reset your body's fat thermostat]]></description><link>https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/hunger-code-book-summary</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/hunger-code-book-summary</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Ashish Sinha]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 05 Apr 2026 11:35:45 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-video.s3.amazonaws.com/video_upload/post/193244436/4ca81b4e-6e66-459b-9f24-5974a71c04b6/transcoded-1775388450.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>If your best friend becomes obese, your own risk increases by 171 percent</p></blockquote><p>Dr Jason Fung, often called as the founder of intermittent fasting has a simple advice for you - your hunger matters.</p><p>In his latest book, <a href="https://amzn.to/4ccWe0x">The Hunger Code</a> (Reset Your Body&#8217;s Fat Thermostat by Breaking the Ultra-processed Food Habit), he argues that the traditional <strong>"calories in, calories out"</strong> approach to weight loss is a scientific failure that ignores the complex <strong>hormonal regulation</strong> of body fat. He asserts that obesity is driven by <strong>persistent hunger</strong> rather than a simple lack of willpower, categorized into <strong>physical, emotional, and social</strong> types.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p>Instead of calorie counting, Fung proposes <strong>three golden rules</strong>: avoiding processed items, practicing <strong>intermittent fasting</strong>, and fostering healthy social habits. By addressing the <strong>root causes of hunger</strong>, the book aims to provide a sustainable framework for long-term health and weight management.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://amzn.to/4dZ4aEY" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!1C3m!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2b75c025-fd2d-41da-ac97-e89b7865e178_1000x1500.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!1C3m!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2b75c025-fd2d-41da-ac97-e89b7865e178_1000x1500.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!1C3m!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2b75c025-fd2d-41da-ac97-e89b7865e178_1000x1500.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!1C3m!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2b75c025-fd2d-41da-ac97-e89b7865e178_1000x1500.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!1C3m!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2b75c025-fd2d-41da-ac97-e89b7865e178_1000x1500.jpeg" width="347" height="520.5" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/2b75c025-fd2d-41da-ac97-e89b7865e178_1000x1500.jpeg&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:1500,&quot;width&quot;:1000,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:347,&quot;bytes&quot;:null,&quot;alt&quot;:null,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:null,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https://amzn.to/4dZ4aEY&quot;,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:false,&quot;topImage&quot;:true,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:null,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!1C3m!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2b75c025-fd2d-41da-ac97-e89b7865e178_1000x1500.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!1C3m!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2b75c025-fd2d-41da-ac97-e89b7865e178_1000x1500.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!1C3m!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2b75c025-fd2d-41da-ac97-e89b7865e178_1000x1500.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!1C3m!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2b75c025-fd2d-41da-ac97-e89b7865e178_1000x1500.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw" fetchpriority="high"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p>Here are the big ideas from the book : </p><h3><strong>The Great Calorie Delusion</strong></h3><p>The dominant view since the 1970s is that obesity is simply an energy balance problem&#8212;&#8221;Calories In, Calories Out.&#8221; Yet, calorie-restriction diets have a perfect track record, unblemished by success. If you are obese, the standard advice to &#8220;eat less&#8221; carries a 99.35 percent failure rate. We must stop pretending this strategy works. As I&#8217;ve said, the obsessive focus on calories is neither useful nor effective; it&#8217;s the definition of insanity to keep giving the same advice and hoping for different results. Obesity is not a caloric imbalance; it is a hormonal one.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/hunger-code-book-summary?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Share&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/hunger-code-book-summary?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share"><span>Share</span></a></p><blockquote><p>Stop counting calories and start focusing on the hormonal impact of the foods you choose.</p></blockquote><h3>Food is Information, Not Just Fuel</h3><p>Calories are a measure of heat energy in physics, but in human physiology, they are a sadly incomplete description of food&#8217;s fattening effect. Food contains two things: energy (calories) and information (the body&#8217;s hormonal response). Different foods generate completely different hormonal instructions. For instance, 200 calories of cookies spikes insulin, telling your body to store fat, while 200 calories of eggs releases GLP-1, telling you to stop eating. It&#8217;s as bizarre as saying that selling cocaine and selling men&#8217;s suits is the same thing because they both involve money.</p><blockquote><p>Prioritize foods that signal satiety (like eggs) over those that trigger fat storage (like cookies).</p></blockquote><h3>Resetting Your Internal Fat Thermostat</h3><p>The body regulates body fat using a homeostatic mechanism similar to a room thermostat. Obesity is not caused by eating too many calories; it&#8217;s a disorder where the &#8220;body set weight&#8221; is set too high. </p><p>If you open a window to cool a hot room without turning down the thermostat, the heater just cranks up to compensate. Similarly, if you just &#8220;eat less,&#8221; your body fat thermostat responds by increasing hunger and lowering your metabolic rate to regain the weight. You can&#8217;t use willpower to decide to be less hungry.</p><blockquote><p>To lose weight permanently, you must use hormones to dial down your body fat thermostat rather than fighting your hunger.</p></blockquote>
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In <em><a href="https://amzn.to/4dwn0Dp">Beyond Belief</a></em>, bestselling author Nir Eyal (<em>Indistractable, Hooked</em>) reveals how the hidden assumptions you carry shape what you see, how you feel, and what you do&#8213;and how to replace them with beliefs that unlock your true potential.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://amzn.to/4dwn0Dp" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!GuOi!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F08b2b131-e996-4950-a37f-bde794e66a6f_981x1500.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!GuOi!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F08b2b131-e996-4950-a37f-bde794e66a6f_981x1500.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!GuOi!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F08b2b131-e996-4950-a37f-bde794e66a6f_981x1500.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!GuOi!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F08b2b131-e996-4950-a37f-bde794e66a6f_981x1500.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!GuOi!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F08b2b131-e996-4950-a37f-bde794e66a6f_981x1500.jpeg" width="375" height="573.394495412844" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/08b2b131-e996-4950-a37f-bde794e66a6f_981x1500.jpeg&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:1500,&quot;width&quot;:981,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:375,&quot;bytes&quot;:null,&quot;alt&quot;:null,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:null,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https://amzn.to/4dwn0Dp&quot;,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:false,&quot;topImage&quot;:true,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:null,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!GuOi!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F08b2b131-e996-4950-a37f-bde794e66a6f_981x1500.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!GuOi!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F08b2b131-e996-4950-a37f-bde794e66a6f_981x1500.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!GuOi!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F08b2b131-e996-4950-a37f-bde794e66a6f_981x1500.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!GuOi!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F08b2b131-e996-4950-a37f-bde794e66a6f_981x1500.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw" fetchpriority="high"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p><br>Grounded in neuroscience, psychology, and unforgettable case&#8230;</p>
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Someone using AI will replace you.&#8221;</p><p>As the artificial intelligence typhoon descends upon us, this has become the mantra of tech CEOs and business pundits.</p><p>Here&#8217;s the twist: They&#8217;re wrong.</p><p>As AI excels at technical tasks like data analysis and coding, the future of work will be won by those who lead, persuade, influence, and inspire. And there&#8217;s one cognitive superpower that improves all those crucial soft skills: <strong><a href="https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/t/storytelling">storytelling.</a></strong></p><blockquote><p>Make AI your primary skillset, and you&#8217;ll become an assistant to a machine. Master storytelling first&#8212;and then amplify your abilities with AI&#8212;and you&#8217;ll make yourself irreplaceable. </p></blockquote><p><strong>The clock is ticking. Which path will you take?</strong></p><div><hr></div><p>In <em><a href="https://amzn.to/46WQ6HN">Super Skill</a>,</em> author Joe Lazer reveals 15 storytelling principles that will help you win in the AI Age. Through science-backed techniques, cutting-edge AI applications, and real-world stories of neuroscientists, Neanderthals, founders, and filmmakers, he&#8217;ll show you how to hone your storytelling superpowers, build a following, and future-proof your career.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://amzn.to/46WQ6HN" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!HEAu!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6713db2c-7ce2-44fc-828f-e056d5993820_667x1000.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!HEAu!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6713db2c-7ce2-44fc-828f-e056d5993820_667x1000.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!HEAu!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6713db2c-7ce2-44fc-828f-e056d5993820_667x1000.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!HEAu!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6713db2c-7ce2-44fc-828f-e056d5993820_667x1000.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!HEAu!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6713db2c-7ce2-44fc-828f-e056d5993820_667x1000.jpeg" width="325" height="487.256371814093" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/6713db2c-7ce2-44fc-828f-e056d5993820_667x1000.jpeg&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:1000,&quot;width&quot;:667,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:325,&quot;bytes&quot;:64150,&quot;alt&quot;:null,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image/jpeg&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https://amzn.to/46WQ6HN&quot;,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:false,&quot;topImage&quot;:true,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:&quot;https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/i/189750562?img=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6713db2c-7ce2-44fc-828f-e056d5993820_667x1000.jpeg&quot;,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!HEAu!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6713db2c-7ce2-44fc-828f-e056d5993820_667x1000.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!HEAu!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6713db2c-7ce2-44fc-828f-e056d5993820_667x1000.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!HEAu!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6713db2c-7ce2-44fc-828f-e056d5993820_667x1000.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!HEAu!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6713db2c-7ce2-44fc-828f-e056d5993820_667x1000.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw" fetchpriority="high"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p>His revelation? The key decision isn&#8217;t whether you&#8217;ll invest in your AI skills. </p><p><strong>It&#8217;s whether you&#8217;ll invest in your humanity</strong>.</p><div><hr></div><p><strong>Big ideas from the book &#128071;</strong></p><div><hr></div><h4><strong>Escaping the &#8220;Vortex of Mid&#8221;</strong></h4><p>Lazer warns of the <strong>Vortex of Mid</strong>&#8212;AI&#8217;s powerful gravitational pull toward mediocrity. Because AI models generate text based on the most common patterns found on the internet, they are &#8220;mid&#8221; by design. If you want to stand out, your stories must be distinctly human, vivid, and provocative.</p><p>To help us break through, Joe introduces the <strong>RENT</strong> framework&#8212;the four foundational elements of persuasive storytelling&#8212;and pairs them with a fifth secret weapon that captures attention in seconds.</p><h4><strong>The 5 Key Curiosity Elements to Make Your Stories Persuasive</strong></h4><p><strong>1. Relatability: Triggering the &#8220;Mirror&#8221;</strong> When your audience sees themselves in your story, <strong>mirror neurons</strong> fire, making their neural activity literally mirror yours. This &#8220;emotional contagion&#8221; builds instant trust and empathy.</p><ul><li><p><em>The Strategy:</em> Adjust your narrative so the audience can see their own &#8220;narcissism&#8221; reflected in the character&#8217;s struggle.</p></li></ul>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Tiny Experiments]]></title><description><![CDATA[Learn How to Live Freely in a Goal-Obsessed World]]></description><link>https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/tiny-experiments-summary</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/tiny-experiments-summary</guid><pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2025 05:55:10 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Oajs!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fce71f69d-d31f-434f-b482-cb5a885a378c_1838x2775.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Life isn&#8217;t linear, and yet we constantly try to mold it around linear goals: four-year college degrees, ten-year career plans, thirty-year mortgages. What if instead we approached life as a giant playground for experimentation? Based on ancestral philosophy and the latest scientific research, Tiny Experiments provides a desperately needed reframing: Unc&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[this is useful - but not true 🤔]]></title><description><![CDATA[Big Ideas from Derek Siver's latest book]]></description><link>https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/this-is-useful-but-not-true</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/this-is-useful-but-not-true</guid><pubDate>Sat, 12 Jul 2025 07:16:48 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!bz-S!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fd8a82247-792a-45e7-95e0-e7186000c73a_938x1500.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p><strong>People&#8217;s motives are unknowable. Let go of the need for a reason. Ignore their explanations. The only true facts are their actions</strong></p></blockquote><p>Derek Sivers' latest thought-provoking work, "<a href="https://amzn.to/4kBwTQ2">Useful Not True</a>," is all about challenging your perception of "truth" and embracing what's genuinely useful for your life. </p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p>&#8220;Useful Not True&#8221; is about <strong>reframing</strong>.<br><br>Success in anything starts with your <strong>perspective</strong> which affects your <strong>strategy</strong> &#8212; your actions.<br><br>Your <strong>first</strong> thought (&#8220;this is a disaster&#8221;) <strong>feels true</strong>, but it&#8217;s not the only perspective.<br><br>Your first thought is an <strong>obstacle</strong> you need to get past by realizing <strong>no thoughts are necessarily true</strong>.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://amzn.to/4kBwTQ2" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!bz-S!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fd8a82247-792a-45e7-95e0-e7186000c73a_938x1500.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!bz-S!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fd8a82247-792a-45e7-95e0-e7186000c73a_938x1500.jpeg 848w, 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Whatever meaning you project into it is your own</p></blockquote><h2><strong>Understanding others</strong></h2><p><strong>People share perspectives, not facts</strong>. They tell you how they see things.<br><br>Like someone across the world telling you the time. Maybe it&#8217;s true for them, <strong>but not for you</strong>, and not for most other people.</p>
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It's the sum total of your experiences, expertise, beliefs, values, and inherent purpose. </p><div class="pullquote"><p>The power of your Uniqueness is not that it is new. The power of your Uniqueness is that it worked for you.</p></div><p>Think of it simply as your <strong>reputation</strong> &#8211; what comes to mind when people think of you. The key is to be intentional and proactive in shaping this reputation, ensuring it reflects precisely what you want to be known for. Without this deliberate effort, you risk letting others define your identity by default. Your personal brand is unique to you and something no one can ever take away.</p><h3>Diluted Focus Leads to Diluted Results</h3><p>One of the most significant reasons personal brands often fail is a <strong>diluted focus</strong>. When you spread your precious resources&#8212;time, money, and attention&#8212;across too many different initiatives, topics, audiences, or revenue streams, each endeavor receives only a fraction of its potential, leading to marginal outcomes. </p><blockquote><p><strong>Don&#8217;t be so concerned about the width of your reach that you forget about the depth of your impact.</strong></p></blockquote><p>The authors highlight that true success comes from <strong>"radically focus[ing] on and relentlessly dedicat[ing] yourself to" one primary initiative</strong>. By concentrating your efforts, you exponentially increase your chances of standing out and achieving substantial results, preventing yourself from becoming just more noise in a crowded market.</p><h3>Serve the Person You Once Were</h3><p>To powerfully connect with your audience and discover your unique message, look inward: <strong>"You are most powerfully positioned to serve the person you once were"</strong>. This means drawing from your own life's challenges, setbacks, obstacles, and tragedies that you've overcome. </p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why we hoomans do not listen (to other hoomans)]]></title><description><![CDATA[Big ideas from the book &#8216;Deep Listening&#8217;]]></description><link>https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/deep-listening-book-summary-audiobook</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/deep-listening-book-summary-audiobook</guid><pubDate>Sat, 28 Jun 2025 09:58:43 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1613963931023-5dc59437c8a6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wzMDAzMzh8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw2OHx8cGVvcGxlJTIwdGFsa2luZyUyMG5vdCUyMGxpc3RlbmluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3NTExMDQ2MTR8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.1.0&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ever feel like you&#8217;re talking into a void, or that the person supposedly listening to you is actually miles away? You&#8217;re not alone. While we spend a lot of time communicating, <strong>true listening often fails</strong>, leaving us feeling ignored and unheard. </p><blockquote><p>We assume listening is automatic, something our ears do by default, but it's far from it. </p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2" target="_blank" href="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1613963931023-5dc59437c8a6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wzMDAzMzh8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw2OHx8cGVvcGxlJTIwdGFsa2luZyUyMG5vdCUyMGxpc3RlbmluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3NTExMDQ2MTR8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.1.0&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1613963931023-5dc59437c8a6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wzMDAzMzh8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw2OHx8cGVvcGxlJTIwdGFsa2luZyUyMG5vdCUyMGxpc3RlbmluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3NTExMDQ2MTR8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.1.0&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080 424w, https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1613963931023-5dc59437c8a6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wzMDAzMzh8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw2OHx8cGVvcGxlJTIwdGFsa2luZyUyMG5vdCUyMGxpc3RlbmluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3NTExMDQ2MTR8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.1.0&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080 848w, https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1613963931023-5dc59437c8a6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wzMDAzMzh8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw2OHx8cGVvcGxlJTIwdGFsa2luZyUyMG5vdCUyMGxpc3RlbmluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3NTExMDQ2MTR8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.1.0&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080 1272w, https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1613963931023-5dc59437c8a6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wzMDAzMzh8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw2OHx8cGVvcGxlJTIwdGFsa2luZyUyMG5vdCUyMGxpc3RlbmluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3NTExMDQ2MTR8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.1.0&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1613963931023-5dc59437c8a6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wzMDAzMzh8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw2OHx8cGVvcGxlJTIwdGFsa2luZyUyMG5vdCUyMGxpc3RlbmluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3NTExMDQ2MTR8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.1.0&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" width="300" height="200.45811518324606" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1613963931023-5dc59437c8a6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wzMDAzMzh8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw2OHx8cGVvcGxlJTIwdGFsa2luZyUyMG5vdCUyMGxpc3RlbmluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3NTExMDQ2MTR8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.1.0&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:3063,&quot;width&quot;:4584,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:300,&quot;bytes&quot;:null,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;black and white printed textile&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image/jpg&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:false,&quot;topImage&quot;:true,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:null,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="black and white printed textile" title="black and white printed textile" srcset="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1613963931023-5dc59437c8a6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wzMDAzMzh8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw2OHx8cGVvcGxlJTIwdGFsa2luZyUyMG5vdCUyMGxpc3RlbmluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3NTExMDQ2MTR8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.1.0&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080 424w, https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1613963931023-5dc59437c8a6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wzMDAzMzh8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw2OHx8cGVvcGxlJTIwdGFsa2luZyUyMG5vdCUyMGxpc3RlbmluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3NTExMDQ2MTR8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.1.0&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080 848w, https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1613963931023-5dc59437c8a6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wzMDAzMzh8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw2OHx8cGVvcGxlJTIwdGFsa2luZyUyMG5vdCUyMGxpc3RlbmluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3NTExMDQ2MTR8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.1.0&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080 1272w, https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1613963931023-5dc59437c8a6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wzMDAzMzh8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw2OHx8cGVvcGxlJTIwdGFsa2luZyUyMG5vdCUyMGxpc3RlbmluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3NTExMDQ2MTR8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.1.0&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080 1456w" sizes="100vw" fetchpriority="high"></picture><div></div></div></a></figure></div><p></p></blockquote><p>So, why do we humans struggle so much to truly listen to other humans? </p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p>Big ideas from the book &#8216;<a href="https://amzn.to/4lw38kp">Deep Listening</a>&#8217; by Emily Kariel. Drawing on scientific studies, new research, and powerful stories from legendary listeners in politics, business, and the arts, Kasriel unveils her simple yet transformative eight-step approach. 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Instead of truly hearing, we're on the hunt for weaknesses, ready to "cut our adversary down". This leaves the other person feeling dismissed and distrustful.</p></li><li><p><strong>The "I Am in Charge" Trap</strong>: If you're a boss, parent, or elder, you might believe your role is to explain, instruct, or dictate. Listening, in this view, feels like intellectual passivity or a sign of laziness. There's a fear that if you listen, your authority will be diminished.</p></li><li><p><strong>The "I Have Expertise (and You Don&#8217;t)" Snare</strong>: </p></li></ul>
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Training large models can consume vast amounts of energy; generating text can use as much energy as charging a smartphone nearly four times, and <strong>generating one thousand images is equivalent to charging a smartphone 242 times!</strong></p></blockquote><p>Big ideas from the book <a href="https://amzn.to/4kD28dX">Empire of AI: Dreams and Nightmares in Sam Altman's OpenAI</a></p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://amzn.to/4kD28dX" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!r371!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2513865f-c1dc-4d40-9c76-47ba1efcee91_987x1500.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!r371!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2513865f-c1dc-4d40-9c76-47ba1efcee91_987x1500.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!r371!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2513865f-c1dc-4d40-9c76-47ba1efcee91_987x1500.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!r371!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2513865f-c1dc-4d40-9c76-47ba1efcee91_987x1500.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!r371!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2513865f-c1dc-4d40-9c76-47ba1efcee91_987x1500.jpeg" width="320" height="486.322188449848" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/2513865f-c1dc-4d40-9c76-47ba1efcee91_987x1500.jpeg&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:1500,&quot;width&quot;:987,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:320,&quot;bytes&quot;:null,&quot;alt&quot;:null,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:null,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https://amzn.to/4kD28dX&quot;,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:false,&quot;topImage&quot;:true,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:null,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!r371!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2513865f-c1dc-4d40-9c76-47ba1efcee91_987x1500.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!r371!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2513865f-c1dc-4d40-9c76-47ba1efcee91_987x1500.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!r371!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2513865f-c1dc-4d40-9c76-47ba1efcee91_987x1500.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!r371!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2513865f-c1dc-4d40-9c76-47ba1efcee91_987x1500.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw" fetchpriority="high"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p>When AI expert and investigative journalist Karen Hao first began covering OpenAI in 2019, she thought they were the good guys. 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Unfortunately, most big projects flop with customers. </p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p>Too many teams waste time, money, and opportunity because they follow the wrong strategy and lose sight of what really matters: </p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/click-how-to-make-what-people-want?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Share&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/click-how-to-make-what-people-want?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share"><span>Share</span></a></p><blockquote><p>Do people want what you&#8217;re making? Does your solution click with customers?</p></blockquote><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://amzn.to/4lORxhn" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!B4bS!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fec200eba-9f96-4255-8bba-4169f1a7eda3_984x1500.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!B4bS!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fec200eba-9f96-4255-8bba-4169f1a7eda3_984x1500.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!B4bS!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fec200eba-9f96-4255-8bba-4169f1a7eda3_984x1500.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!B4bS!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fec200eba-9f96-4255-8bba-4169f1a7eda3_984x1500.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!B4bS!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fec200eba-9f96-4255-8bba-4169f1a7eda3_984x1500.jpeg" width="224" height="341.4634146341463" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/ec200eba-9f96-4255-8bba-4169f1a7eda3_984x1500.jpeg&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:1500,&quot;width&quot;:984,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:224,&quot;bytes&quot;:null,&quot;alt&quot;:null,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:null,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https://amzn.to/4lORxhn&quot;,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:false,&quot;topImage&quot;:true,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:null,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!B4bS!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fec200eba-9f96-4255-8bba-4169f1a7eda3_984x1500.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!B4bS!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fec200eba-9f96-4255-8bba-4169f1a7eda3_984x1500.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!B4bS!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fec200eba-9f96-4255-8bba-4169f1a7eda3_984x1500.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!B4bS!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fec200eba-9f96-4255-8bba-4169f1a7eda3_984x1500.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw" fetchpriority="high"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p>Jake Knapp and John Zeratsky&#8212;two brilliant product designers who spent years at Google Ventures and elsewhere before founding a venture capital firm together&#8212;have helped hundreds of teams bring new products and services into the world. As designers and investors, they have a front-row seat to some of the world&#8217;s most successful startups. </p><p><em><a href="https://amzn.to/4lORxhn">Click</a> </em>introduces the <strong>Foundation Sprint</strong>&#8212;a proven system for starting projects the right way, to make better decisions and move quickly toward a solution.<br><br>Inside are ten important lessons, a step-by-step playbook for the Foundation Sprint, and memorable stories from Nike, Google, Slack, and the frontiers of artificial intelligence research. Building on their bestselling book, <em>Sprint</em>, Knapp and Zeratsky introduce new recipes that teams can use to quickly and confidently start projects. For anyone who has ever had a good idea but didn&#8217;t know how to start, this book is for you.</p><div><hr></div><p><strong>Making Ideas Click: How to Validate and Adapt Your Product Strategy with Speed</strong></p><h2>Making Ideas Click: How to Validate and Adapt Your Product Strategy with Speed</h2><p>Building a new product is challenging, and most new products unfortunately flop rather than click with customers. This failure can be a colossal waste of time and energy. While many factors contribute to success, the most important is whether the product and the customer fit together &#8211; whether it "clicks". A product clicks if it solves an important problem, stands out from the competition, and makes sense to people.</p><p>Often, teams get caught up in the details of technology, execution, and design, losing sight of the fundamental question: When this is offered to people, will they want it? All too frequently, teams bet on the wrong strategy, leading to failure. </p><ul><li><p>The traditional approach involves spending months or even years building and launching a finished product before discovering if customers actually want it.</p></li><li><p>Even building a Minimum Viable Product (MVP) for an ambitious solution can take about a year . This slow, risky path makes adaptation difficult if initial assumptions are incorrect.</p></li></ul><p>However, there is a more reliable way to increase the chances of success. A system has been developed and proven, based on firsthand experience with successful products at companies like Google and numerous startups. This system helps teams clarify fundamentals, make rapid decisions, and set up fast experiments to figure out what clicks. It centers around using <strong>sprints</strong> to create, test, and adapt a product strategy based on real customer feedback.</p><p>The system begins with a <strong>Foundation Sprint</strong>. This is a two-day workshop designed for a team at the beginning of a big project. Its purpose is to quickly create clarity on the project's fundamentals. On day one, the team defines the Basics: who the target customer is, the problem to solve for them, the team's unique advantages, and the strongest competition. They then craft their differentiation &#8211; what makes their solution stand out &#8211; and practical principles to guide decision-making. On day two, the team explores multiple possible approaches to the solution using a method called Magic Lenses, which helps them consider competing opinions and perspectives visually. The process utilizes techniques like Note-and-Vote and working alone together to streamline discussions and decision-making. The Foundation Sprint requires intense focus, necessitating the team to call a "time-out" from normal distractions like constant meetings and email. Getting the "Decider" &#8211; the real boss who can make decisions stick &#8211; involved from the start is crucial.</p><p>The output of the Foundation Sprint is a <strong>Founding Hypothesis</strong>. This is a clear statement condensing the team's fundamental guesses about the customer, problem, approach, and differentiation. It's simple but powerful, like a compelling promise to customers. Crucially, the Founding Hypothesis is just a guess until proven. It's a tool for learning, intended to be tested, proven wrong, and updated.</p><p>This is where the <strong>Design Sprint</strong> comes in. Design Sprints are the recommended method for testing and adjusting the Founding Hypothesis. It's a five-day process that allows teams to solve problems and test new ideas.</p><ul><li><p><strong>Monday:</strong> Map out the customer problem.</p></li><li><p><strong>Tuesday:</strong> Sketch competing solutions on paper.</p></li><li><p><strong>Wednesday:</strong> Decide which solutions to test.</p></li><li><p><strong>Thursday:</strong> Create realistic prototypes.</p></li><li><p><strong>Friday:</strong> Test with customers.</p></li></ul><p>The Design Sprint provides a "time machine" effect, allowing teams to see customer reactions to a prototype before investing in building the full solution. This allows for rapid experimentation using "tiny loops" between the hypothesis and customers. Instead of long development cycles, teams get multiple attempts to make their solution click.</p><p>Design Sprints can be used to prototype and test various aspects of the strategy, not just software. Teams can focus on testing key risks. Often, the first Design Sprint focuses on testing the product's story &#8211; how customers discover, learn about, and decide to try it, perhaps using a sales deck or website prototype. This helps validate if they are reaching the right customers, if the customers have the problem, and if the differentiation appeals to them.</p><p>A key advantage of Design Sprints over building an MVP is the ability to test multiple competing prototypes simultaneously. Teams can try different ideas head-to-head. Testing prototypes against competitors or the status quo provides valuable realism . Observing genuine, unguarded customer <em>reactions</em> to prototypes offers vital signals. If a prototype clicks with most or all testers, it's a strong indicator of potential product-market fit.</p><p>This system allows teams to iterate rapidly. If a prototype doesn't click with customers, the team adjusts their ideas and repeats the sprint process. These early adjustments, even if they involve changing the solution or modifying the Founding Hypothesis itself (like the target customer or differentiation), are seen not as failures but as "hyperefficient pivots" [conversation history, based on 114]. Pivoting when prototypes don't click takes hours, compared to months when an MVP fails.</p><p>By starting with a Foundation Sprint to form a clear hypothesis and following with consecutive Design Sprints to test and adjust it, teams radically increase their velocity. They prove (or disprove) their foundational guesses and adapt based on real customer interaction <em>before</em> investing significant time and money in building the final product. This system helps teams get closer to making a product that people actually want. Examples include companies like Phaidra testing an AI dashboard prototype or Genius Loci testing website+signs against an app concept, using this approach to validate their strategies and adapt based on customer feedback. Many successful companies and startups have used or adopted these methods to bring products to market.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[No more tears: The dark secrets of Johnson & Johnson]]></title><description><![CDATA[An incendiary, deeply reported expos&#233; of one of America&#8217;s oldest and most trusted pharmaceutical companies]]></description><link>https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/no-more-tears-the-dark-secrets-of</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/no-more-tears-the-dark-secrets-of</guid><pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2025 18:13:34 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/161402148/648071c4f0b8ce27e652141eca33c4f6.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One day in 2004, Gardiner Harris, early for a flight, sat down at an airport bar and started talking to the woman on the barstool beside him. She was a drug sales rep for Johnson &amp; Johnson, and her horrific story about unethical sales practices and the devastating impact they&#8217;d had on her family fundamentally changed the nature of how Harris covered the company&#8212;and the entire pharmaceutical industry&#8212;for <em>The New York Times</em>. His subsequent investigations and ongoing research since that very first conversation led to new federal laws and ultimately to this book, a blistering expos&#233; of a trusted American institution and the largest healthcare conglomerate in the world.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!tK1x!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc3a51251-dfab-402f-b229-8b428d822597_293x445.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!tK1x!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc3a51251-dfab-402f-b229-8b428d822597_293x445.jpeg 424w, 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He covers multiple disasters: lies and cover-ups regarding baby powder&#8217;s linkage to cancer, the surprising dangers of Tylenol, a criminal campaign to sell antipsychotics in ways that have cost countless lives, a popular drug used to support cancer patients that actually increases the risk that cancer tumors will grow, and deceptive marketing efforts that accelerated opioid addictions through their product Duragesic (fentanyl) that rival even those of the Sacklers and Purdue Pharma.<br><br>Filled with shocking, infuriating, but utterly necessary revelations, <em>No More Tears </em>is a landmark work of investigative journalism that lays bare the deeply rooted corruption behind the image of babies bathing with a smile.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://amzn.to/42vWVwN&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Get the book&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://amzn.to/42vWVwN"><span>Get the book</span></a></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The doors you can open by Rosalind Chow]]></title><description><![CDATA[A new way to network, build trust, and use your influence to create a more inclusive workplace]]></description><link>https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/the-doors-you-can-open-by-rosalind</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/the-doors-you-can-open-by-rosalind</guid><pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2025 17:56:50 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/161400837/6d715947c12b9efd1c8ec14e5b8de848.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A pioneering professor of organizational behavior turns the concept of networking on its head, arguing that we must move beyond the standard mentorship model to embrace sponsorship, where we use our social networks and political capital on behalf of others.<br><br>"It's not <em>what</em> you know, but <em>who</em> you know." According to conventional wisdom, our social networks are a resource to exploit, and getting ahead means extracting value from our social connections. But according to Dr. Rosalind Chow, Professor of organizational behavior at Carnegie Mellon's business school, not only is this an antiquated notion, it's also useless in today's society and workplaces. And it certainly doesn't account for the fact that not everyone starts on equal footing in the workplace. Based on decades of original research analyzing social hierarchies, corporate environments, and gender and race relations, <em>Beyond Mentorship</em> makes a bold case for completely changing the way we network.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!lhsK!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fbccdeca2-e670-4172-8a10-a6a728fc266b_287x445.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!lhsK!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fbccdeca2-e670-4172-8a10-a6a728fc266b_287x445.jpeg 424w, 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Sponsorship involves managing others' impressions or beliefs about a prot&#233;g&#233; or colleague. Our social networks can and should be used <em>on behalf of others.</em> And it helps us too. What if we tried to position ourselves so that we could be the first to share new information, to elevate others to be more visible to decision makers, and to connect people to the help that they need? Suddenly, networking would become much more than just ladder climbing.<br><br>At a moment the workplace is going through a seismic transformation, this book is a potent reminder that we can all build more equitable connections effectively, meaningfully, and joyously. And this book will empower readers to be smarter about cultivating authentic, supportive, diverse relationships and communities.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://amzn.to/4iicpua&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Get the book&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://amzn.to/4iicpua"><span>Get the book</span></a></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Shatterproof: How to Thrive in a World of Constant Chaos (and Why Resilience Alone Isn't Enough)]]></title><description><![CDATA[Learn how to turn stress into strength in this "impactful guide to navigating life's upheavals"]]></description><link>https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/shatterproof-how-to-thrive-in-a-world</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/shatterproof-how-to-thrive-in-a-world</guid><pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2025 17:40:19 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/161400534/0db8ac7bdeebe149399e3ab945bafc84.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you working too much but feel like it's never enough? Have you turned the act of pretending you're "fine" into an art form? Does self-care feel like one more item on your already long to-do list?</p><p>We've been taught that resilience is the secret to navigating life's most difficult moments. But according to <em>New York Times</em> bestselling author, organizational psychologist, and researcher Dr. Tasha Eurich, there is one problem with this assumption. Scientifically, resilience isn't an unlimited resource, especially with the growing pressure and uncertainty we're experiencing today.</p><p>What if, instead of merely "bouncing back" from stressors and setbacks, we could harness them for forward growth?</p><p>Whether you're grappling with work stress, personal challenges, or the chaos of everyday life, <em>Shatterproof </em>offers an urgent alternative to stoic endurance as the only strategy for survival. Combining cutting-edge research, practical tools, and insights from her own struggle with a life-defining health crisis, Dr. Eurich will overturn your beliefs about what it takes to thrive through adversity, offering a scientifically supported system to help you feel better, do better, and live better than before. </p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zDaZ!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3ea1d086-f107-4fff-a83b-b85bdaf14aad_337x522.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zDaZ!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3ea1d086-f107-4fff-a83b-b85bdaf14aad_337x522.jpeg 424w, 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That is what it means to become shatterproof.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://amzn.to/4ieGL0H&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Get the book&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://amzn.to/4ieGL0H"><span>Get the book</span></a></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The bad vibes field guide by Devin Hunter]]></title><description><![CDATA[A definitive handbook for psychics and the afflicted]]></description><link>https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/the-bad-vibes-field-guide-by-devin</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/the-bad-vibes-field-guide-by-devin</guid><pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2025 17:32:37 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/161399957/4db34e0ce33fee41c0fd3f4b9e49e100.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Learn how to cleanse, protect yourself from, and transmute bad vibes, regardless of their size or origin. Devin Hunter provides the support you need to face any energetic problem, whether you're a beginner or an experienced psychic. Each topic builds upon the preceding one, growing with you as you gain experience. This comprehensive book covers everything from dealing with unwanted ghosts to turning spiteful energy into soul nutrition.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Dby1!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F04235e12-57dc-4a7d-9dc3-7087d25765c1_342x522.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Dby1!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F04235e12-57dc-4a7d-9dc3-7087d25765c1_342x522.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Dby1!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F04235e12-57dc-4a7d-9dc3-7087d25765c1_342x522.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Dby1!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F04235e12-57dc-4a7d-9dc3-7087d25765c1_342x522.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Dby1!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F04235e12-57dc-4a7d-9dc3-7087d25765c1_342x522.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Dby1!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F04235e12-57dc-4a7d-9dc3-7087d25765c1_342x522.jpeg" width="342" height="522" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/04235e12-57dc-4a7d-9dc3-7087d25765c1_342x522.jpeg&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:522,&quot;width&quot;:342,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:null,&quot;bytes&quot;:32004,&quot;alt&quot;:null,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image/jpeg&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:false,&quot;topImage&quot;:true,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:&quot;https://www.bigideas.fm/i/161399957?img=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F04235e12-57dc-4a7d-9dc3-7087d25765c1_342x522.jpeg&quot;,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Dby1!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F04235e12-57dc-4a7d-9dc3-7087d25765c1_342x522.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Dby1!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F04235e12-57dc-4a7d-9dc3-7087d25765c1_342x522.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Dby1!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F04235e12-57dc-4a7d-9dc3-7087d25765c1_342x522.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Dby1!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F04235e12-57dc-4a7d-9dc3-7087d25765c1_342x522.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw" fetchpriority="high"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p>Devin shares personal stories and secrets from more than twenty years as a professional psychic medium and teacher. He covers a wide range of topics and provides quick, step-by-step procedures to tackle any issue. He also offers tools and advice for expanding your abilities as a psychic or empath. This book is packed with ways to protect yourself from and cleanse your life of bad vibes.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://amzn.to/42HPbct&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Get the book&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://amzn.to/42HPbct"><span>Get the book</span></a></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Beyond happy: How to rethink happiness and find fulfilment]]></title><description><![CDATA[A comprehensive guide to cultivating wellbeing, combining cutting edge science and primordial folk wisdom.]]></description><link>https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/beyond-happy-how-to-rethink-happiness</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/beyond-happy-how-to-rethink-happiness</guid><pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2025 17:10:22 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/161398346/afccdc26ad73df35e17661485e81f7f3.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mark Fabian, one of the most exhilarating thinkers working on wellbeing today, presents a revolutionary approach to understanding why there&#8217;s more to life than the pursuit of happiness.</p><p><em>Beyond Happy</em> explores how evolution has wired us to keep happiness just out of reach, leaving us perpetually stuck on a happiness treadmill. Instead of striving to escape it, the book argues, we should focus on making the treadmill a place we want to be. Finding this wellbeing begins with listening to our emotions, discovering intrinsic motivation and pursuing our authentic values. Fabian coaches you through this process of self-actualisation. </p><blockquote><p><em>Wellbeing, however, is not solely an individual pursuit &#8211; it is something we cultivate together.</em> </p></blockquote><p>And so <em>Beyond Happy</em> also provides insights into enhancing your emotional intelligence, building relationships on care, and nurturing a karmic community.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!aNBN!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4e13bc3c-fcfc-47f8-9103-3414edf2c3b5_289x445.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" 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To escape this despair, we must develop a moral compass. To heal the toxicity of our acrimonious politics, we need to rediscover the joy of sharing and celebrating what we love.</p><p>Delivered with an entertaining mix of academic precision, a podcaster&#8217;s knack for storytelling, and the down-to-earth panache Australians are known for, <em>Beyond Happy</em> is a one-stop shop to everything you need to know about the good life.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://amzn.to/4ig1W2k&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Get the book&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://amzn.to/4ig1W2k"><span>Get the book</span></a></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Stoic empathy by Shermin Kruse]]></title><description><![CDATA[The Road Map to a Life of Influence, Self-leadership, and Integrity]]></description><link>https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/stoic-empathy-by-shermin-kruse</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/stoic-empathy-by-shermin-kruse</guid><pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2025 16:57:56 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/161396520/bc3d0114aecc41706747e773d31a448e.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Correct the power imbalances in your work and life with a science-backed practice that combines the rigor of Stoic philosophy with the relational impact of empathy.</strong><br><br>Stoicism combined with empathy may sound like a contradiction in terms. But when these seemingly opposing forces are harnessed together, they have the power to change your life.<br><br>From surviving missile attacks and political oppression in Iran to leading high-stakes legal teams and negotiations in corporate America, Shermin Kruse's journey fuels her mission to merge empathy and stoicism as tools for navigating power, justice, and human connection in every facet of life. In this eye-opening book, she offers you this radical perspective shift&#8212;anchored in up-to-the-minute research&#8212;to help you navigate life's challenges with power and principles.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!1wl_!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fdfc87e79-1b52-4190-a848-e3d458f24484_353x522.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!1wl_!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fdfc87e79-1b52-4190-a848-e3d458f24484_353x522.jpeg 424w, 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But Kruse outlines a form of empathy that&#8217;s based in cognition, not emotion&#8212;a way for us to understand what the other person is thinking and feeling while keeping a distance from their feeling state&#8212;and shows us how we can strategically maneuver our level of engagement from &#8220;emotional empathy&#8221; to &#8220;cognitive empathy&#8221; in different circumstances. Then she utilizes Stoic philosophy and modern science to outline the how of emotional regulation and control. The bridge she builds between Stoicism and empathy gives us the knowledge and discipline we need to:</p><ul><li><p>Calmly assess the power dynamics of any situation</p></li><li><p>Understand and manage our own emotions as well as the emotions of others</p></li><li><p>Defuse danger and turn conflict into connection</p></li><li><p>Skillfully steer a challenging conversation toward the result we want</p></li></ul><p>Whether you're a leader striving to succeed in your role with integrity, an educator seeking to guide curious minds with compassion, a parent nurturing resilience in your children, or simply facing a personal or professional crossroads, <em>Stoic Empathy</em> is an essential toolkit for negotiating success in every area of your life.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://amzn.to/4jufbOJ&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Get the book&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://amzn.to/4jufbOJ"><span>Get the book</span></a></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[High functioning: Overcome your hidden depression and reclaim your joy]]></title><description><![CDATA[Do you feel you&#8217;re simply going through the motions?]]></description><link>https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/high-functioning-overcome-your-hidden</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/high-functioning-overcome-your-hidden</guid><pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2025 16:38:41 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/161395748/53b8fec50858cc8b761524750e2d1aa8.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you feel you&#8217;re simply going through the motions? Succeeding at work, pulling your weight at home, living an active social life . . . yet deep down, you feel drained? If so, you may be experiencing High-Functioning Depression.<br><br>In the first book to uncover this new form of depression, Columbia University clinical psychologist Dr Judith Joseph draws on her personal struggles with the illness, revealing brand-new research and client cases to demystify this common yet poorly understood condition.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!c5GF!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fb79f8e20-0936-454b-becc-680bdc3f0249_337x522.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!c5GF!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fb79f8e20-0936-454b-becc-680bdc3f0249_337x522.jpeg 424w, 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class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://amzn.to/4jdByHW&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Get the book&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://amzn.to/4jdByHW"><span>Get the book</span></a></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[I Don't Believe in Astrology by Debra Silverman]]></title><description><![CDATA[A Therapist's Guide to the Life-changing Wisdom of the Stars]]></description><link>https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/i-dont-believe-in-astrology-by-debra</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/i-dont-believe-in-astrology-by-debra</guid><pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2025 16:27:04 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/161395089/23509fca46feca67d5a189e520e351ff.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In a chaotic, confusing, and divisive world, Debra Silverman introduces astrology as the medicine for accepting our human nature--its idiosyncrasies and dilemmas. Through an application of both therapy and astrology, this breakthrough guide equips readers with tools that release self-judgment, inner criticism, negativity, and misunderstanding. Every sign struggles with psychological issues. Understanding the unique topics relative to your sign, it&#8217;s no surprise you are quirky. Learning how to accept who you are and love yourself unconditionally through the lens of astrology is at the heart of this book</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!8mlk!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4e4d580e-5b04-457b-8210-0c6b783e0408_343x522.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!8mlk!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4e4d580e-5b04-457b-8210-0c6b783e0408_343x522.jpeg 424w, 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You will learn to love what you see&#8212;not just your best qualities but everything about you. She shows you how to aim for the high road of your personality. Most of all, you will cultivate compassion for all the other signs in the zodiac. Learn the meaning of the sun, moon, rising sign, Mercury, and Saturn. Using Debra&#8217;s method combining the wisdom of astrology and psychology, readers will remember the truth of their soul&#8217;s expression, seen through the eyes of self-love.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://amzn.to/3Rjre4Q&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Get the book&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://amzn.to/3Rjre4Q"><span>Get the book</span></a></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The once and future world order by Amitav Acharya]]></title><description><![CDATA[Nations, Wealth and Power in the Twenty-first Century]]></description><link>https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/the-once-and-future-world-order-by</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/the-once-and-future-world-order-by</guid><pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2025 16:16:48 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/161393467/8ff4185c44f0ea6dbf727371bb5b8600.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Since the dawn of the twenty-first century, the West has been in crisis. Social unrest, political polarization, and the rise of other great powers - especially China - threaten to unravel today's Western-led world order. Many fear this would lead to global chaos. But the West has never had a monopoly on order.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!6aUC!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa2bd7bc4-7b25-4b49-9d1a-8f2322bcb5eb_339x522.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!6aUC!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa2bd7bc4-7b25-4b49-9d1a-8f2322bcb5eb_339x522.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!6aUC!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa2bd7bc4-7b25-4b49-9d1a-8f2322bcb5eb_339x522.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!6aUC!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa2bd7bc4-7b25-4b49-9d1a-8f2322bcb5eb_339x522.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!6aUC!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa2bd7bc4-7b25-4b49-9d1a-8f2322bcb5eb_339x522.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!6aUC!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa2bd7bc4-7b25-4b49-9d1a-8f2322bcb5eb_339x522.jpeg" width="339" height="522" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/a2bd7bc4-7b25-4b49-9d1a-8f2322bcb5eb_339x522.jpeg&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:522,&quot;width&quot;:339,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:null,&quot;bytes&quot;:28497,&quot;alt&quot;:null,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image/jpeg&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:false,&quot;topImage&quot;:true,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:&quot;https://www.bigideas.fm/i/161393467?img=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa2bd7bc4-7b25-4b49-9d1a-8f2322bcb5eb_339x522.jpeg&quot;,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!6aUC!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa2bd7bc4-7b25-4b49-9d1a-8f2322bcb5eb_339x522.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!6aUC!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa2bd7bc4-7b25-4b49-9d1a-8f2322bcb5eb_339x522.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!6aUC!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa2bd7bc4-7b25-4b49-9d1a-8f2322bcb5eb_339x522.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!6aUC!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa2bd7bc4-7b25-4b49-9d1a-8f2322bcb5eb_339x522.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw" fetchpriority="high"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p>Surveying five thousand years of global history, political scientist Amitav Acharya reveals that world order - the political architecture enabling cooperation and peace among nations - existed long before the rise of the West. Moving from ancient Sumer, India, Greece, and Mesoamerica, through medieval caliphates and Eurasian empires into the present, Acharya shows that humanitarian values, economic interdependence, and rules of inter-state conduct emerged across the globe over millennia. History suggests order will endure even as the West retreats. In fact, the end of Western dominance offers us the opportunity to build a better world, where non-Western nations find more voice, power, and prosperity. Instead of fearing the future, the West should learn from history and cooperate with the Rest to forge a more equitable order.<br><br>This is the definitive account of how world order evolved and why it will survive the decline of the West.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://amzn.to/4jjkz7e&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Get the book&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://amzn.to/4jjkz7e"><span>Get the book</span></a></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The super upside factor: Asymmetric principles that will 10X your life]]></title><description><![CDATA[A practical playbook to maximize luck in life and career]]></description><link>https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/the-super-upside-factor-asymmetric</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/the-super-upside-factor-asymmetric</guid><pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2025 15:56:50 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/161391906/4b31da81c02073d303f8c5e772bed9b9.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Venture capitalists manage to raise and invest trillions of dollars despite being wrong <strong>most of time</strong> through asymmetric bets &#8211; where a few big wins outsize losses by factors of 1,000x.</p><p>In <em>The Super Upside Factor</em>, Daniel Kang draws on his experience as a venture capitalist at Softbank Vision Fund and a Y Combinator-backed founder to adapt asymmetric principles for personal and professional life. He offers a clear framework for maximizing luck and generating outsized returns&#8212;what he calls <strong>Super Upsides.</strong></p><p>Through vivid, real-life experiments, Kang demonstrates how he put these principles into practice&#8212;from securing a book deal writing just 15 minutes a day; to recovering from a spiralling plane as a pilot; to raising millions by betting on pivotal career shift.</p><p>This book draws upon the author&#8217;s firsthand experience going from no money, network, or looks to a highly successful career in entrepreneurship and venture capitalism. In this book, readers will find discussion on:</p><ul><li><p>Core concepts like the multiplier effect and black swans</p></li><li><p>Probabilities, biases, and luck, and how to make them work for you, not against you</p></li><li><p>Tools and first steps to create a &#8220;life portfolio&#8221; of uncapped upsides and unlimited opportunity</p></li></ul><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!exSz!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F459a546a-694a-4c6f-9c34-291aeaec0c74_351x522.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!exSz!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F459a546a-694a-4c6f-9c34-291aeaec0c74_351x522.jpeg 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Beyond the tactical elements, Kang explores the human side of applying these principles, including discussions on mental health, emotional struggles, and even tactically quitting.</p><p><em>The Super Upside Factor </em>will inspire readers&#8212;even the most risk averse&#8212;to realize they are only a few Super Upsides away from extraordinary success and provide precise asymmetric principles needed to stack the odds in their favor.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://amzn.to/4cC2Jd5&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Get the book&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://amzn.to/4cC2Jd5"><span>Get the book</span></a></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[No Fear Networking by Michaela Alexis]]></title><description><![CDATA[A guide to building connections for the socially anxious professional]]></description><link>https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/no-fear-networking-by-michaela-alexis</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://ideas.nextbigwhat.com/p/no-fear-networking-by-michaela-alexis</guid><pubDate>Sun, 06 Apr 2025 08:04:16 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/160694826/a7169948e78e6162825eb1e656df9148.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Embark on a transformative journey with <em>No Fear Networking: A Guide to Building Connections for the Socially Anxious Professional, </em>tailored for anyone who's ever felt overwhelmed by traditional networking. Crafted by a formerly agoraphobic LinkedIn guru who became a viral sensation at 30, this guide is an essential toolkit for fostering genuine connections and opening doors to new opportunities.</p><p><em>No Fear Networking</em> offers a compassionate approach to networking, addressing the challenges faced by socially anxious professionals through practical, actionable strategies. From understanding the nuances of social anxiety to mastering the art of small talk, this book provides everything you need to network with confidence and still feel like yourself.</p><p>What You'll Discover Inside:</p><ul><li><p>Understanding Social Anxiety: Gain insights into the socially anxious mind and learn how to harness your unique strengths in professional settings</p></li><li><p>Strategic Networking Preparation: Shift your mindset with a makeover for "people that can't people," develop a magnetic personal brand, and craft a networking game plan tailored to your comfort level</p></li><li><p>Practical Networking Skills: From mastering small talk to navigating digital platforms and face-to-face interactions without fear, learn the skills to make networking natural and effective</p></li><li><p>Advanced Strategies and Overcoming Setbacks: Build and maintain valuable connections, leverage your network for career growth, and gracefully handle rejections and setbacks</p></li></ul><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!P9OV!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F197fec03-d1c3-4584-ac76-b96387a08de1_301x445.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!P9OV!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F197fec03-d1c3-4584-ac76-b96387a08de1_301x445.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!P9OV!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F197fec03-d1c3-4584-ac76-b96387a08de1_301x445.jpeg 848w, 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Her story is proof that anyone can transform their networking approach and achieve success without losing themselves in the process.</p><p><em>No Fear Networking</em> is more than just a book; it's your gateway to thriving in the professional world despite social anxiety. Whether you're looking to enhance your networking skills or completely start from scratch, this book will gently guide you every step of the way.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://amzn.to/4hZ3VIl&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Get the book&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://amzn.to/4hZ3VIl"><span>Get the book</span></a></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>